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So, by fluke I read some of your postings and I felt only one thing. Disappointment. Now, I don't know you that well, never have and never will, but what I do know is you have more to offer this world than your "hot bod" (as you would describe it). The sad part is the majority of all your postings were about a girl, about a relationship, or about finding your future wife. And while you are out lookin for it, or out pretending to let things come at their own time you are missing out on a lot. You are missing out on doing things you've always wanted to because there are no strings attached. Or missing out on having quality time with the guys or friends that are there for ya whether there is or isnt a girl in your life. And mostly missing out on becoming the best person you can and becoming confident in exactly who you are, without worrying what people think of you or if the right girl will like exactly who you are, because if you like who you are then one day she will too. And I know you might read this and think, "who are you to write this when you know nothing about me." And I agree, I am not in any position to say this about you. But for some reason I felt like writing this. Maybe it's because I've been in similiar situations and wished I'd learned earlier that all the worry and wonder is pointless, or maybe it's because, every once in a while, I can be a good judge of character and I think you have a lot more to offer than you have ever allowed yourself to be.

in some ways i think youre right, however, its that i reserve what others can see of me. i feel like my true friends, who, by the way, i always hang out with, besides a girl, know that theres much more to me than being interested in a girl. the lot of what i choose to post on here is about a girl, and if youll realize, i havent written on here lately cause i dont care for people to know about my current relationship. what i will say is that you are in no position to make those comments, and its tough for you to be a good judge of character solely from my old livejournal posts and not knowing me. but good try! - paul